Anonymous asked: I dont know what else to do. Im sick of having these wars with myself in my head. Im my own worst enemy. And i think ive just lost the battle. Why shouldnt i just make that one cut? That one cut thats so deep that theres no turning back. I need someone who feels the same way. Someone who knows what im going through. I dont know if i can do this for much longer.

you can do this, I promise. this will pass and you will get better. come off anon and we can talk this through <3

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imabelieber9268 asked: Im 34 days cut-free! Its been a long hard journey but if you try and keep telling yourself recovery is possible, you can and will get better! Sure ive been tempted and felt really weak at times but ive made my tools less accessible and ive started talking to my best friend when im tempted.

well done! I am so proud of you!

everyone, keep going. -you can and you will get better<3

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Anonymous asked: I just wanted to say, Ella. Your blog is amazing and I hope it helps people stop cutting like it did for me. -tayler

thankyou so much, and its so good to hear you are recovered <3

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Anonymous asked: I've been clean from cutting for a year and 11 days There is hope recovery is hard but it's oh so worth it It's ok if you messed up today, made a mistake, back tracked on all the progress you'd been making But its ok Tomorrow's a new day Made a mistake today? Thats ok, another lessoned learn to use tomorrow Relapsed today? Its ok, it doesn't take away from the progress you made it doesn't make you a failure it's the reason you should try even harder tomorrow to become that person you want to be

^^ <3

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Anonymous asked: My neighbor is anorexic. She didn'd eat real meals around fifteen,now she's nineteen. She had to leave school and she almost died. She's such a beautiful girl,it's hard to understand why she feels this way. It's so awful to see her like this! How can I help her and end all of this?

talk to her. has she been to a doctor? it sounds like her disorder is very serious, and she cant deal with it alone. you need to talk to her, or her parents, or even ask your parents to talk to her. but she needs help

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Anonymous asked: Im not one to usually publicize my problems, but im running out of options. Just recently , my boyfriend found out that i cut. He panicked and told counselors and now im stuck seeing some lady every week. I know this is supposed to help , but it just makes me feel more stupid. It makes me feel like im some nut case who cant deal with her emotions. I guess i just dont see a point in being here anymore. I feel like im just taking up space. Life can and will go on without me.

tell her this then! you cant expect any benefit from you counselling if you aren’t honest and open in your sessions. tell her you don’t see a point anymore. because she will show you that there is always a point, youre not just taking up space, and so many people would miss you.

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Anonymous asked: Hi, again I was the one with the previous questions, would you please answer in this one? I really need help but I don't want everyone being able to read my friend's situation.

the best way to talk this through, if you don’t want people reading it, is if you come off anon. I will reply privately

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Anonymous asked: I've been cutting around four years... Same place. Left hip bone... Always for the satisfaction of the visual. What's so wrong with cutting? In all honesty. If the self harm isn't directed towards suicide... If its just a release... I mean, working out or something is a release for some people. Cutting is a release for others. Why is cutting so bad? I don't care to stop... It's not killing me. I have no intentions of dying... If it doesn't kill me and relaxes me, then why stop?

its not a healthy way of dealing with your emotions.
plus there are always risks attatched ie. cutting deeper than intended, blood poisoning…
and it can really scare the people who love you

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Anonymous asked: Last year has been so hard. I had to face some things that were so terrible for me. There have been so many awful changes and I'm so dissapointed by myself. I feel like everything that happened must have been my fault. I don't think that it would make any difference if I wasn't here anymore.

of course it would make a difference. so many people love you. change can be difficult to deal with, but things will settle down, I promise you. stay strong, you can get through

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Anonymous asked: Hi I have been clean for a whole week!!! :D thoughts of cutting have entered my mind but I ignored them and even though a week doesn't seem like a long time I'm proud :D everyone out there I know you can do it!! I believe in you :*

fantastic!! well done, I am so so so proud<3

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